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Kalian, kalian
Saya rasa perlu dibahagikan kepada beberapa bahagian
satu bahagian utk perniagaan
satu bahagian utk pekerjaan
satu bahagian utk anak anak
bahagian lain utk makan minum baju suami
dan kemas kemas masak masak di rumah
ya ya, bahagian kecil utk update blog!
terima kasih atas ucapan lawatan & perhatian kalian pada blog & store diyaluna ineh

lagi lagi cerita, 9 & 10 Ogos saya akan membuka booth di Karnival Usahawan Wanita 2008
dan insyaAllah 25& 26 Ogos di Ministry of Finance
Konteki saya ya!

minggu lepas hidup saya huru hara
sambung lagi minggu minggu seterusnya
untungnya tidaklah banyak
tp penatnya banyak sehingga ke hari ineh
dan ragam zikry pun makin banyak
marah agaknya ditinggal lama pergi berniaga
dan kebetulan dia selsema & batuk
lagilah marah dia pada mommanya =)

birthday akak ke ted?
belum pun lagi birthday yang ke26 itew
si dia dah membeli benda berwarna pink lagi utk saya
terima kasih daun keladi wak
lain kali, belikan warna pink banyak banyak penuh rumah lagi ye

saya belum pandai pakai lagi kerana ada banyak setting di sana sineh =(
sebenarnya saya nak tunggu tarikh perasmiannya…16 Ogos gitew
haih…agak ngada ngada yeh!
jadinya dalam blog ineh…ada sekeping saja gambar zikry yang saya ambel guna pink 2(kamera)
yang lain semuanya guna pink 1 (henpon)

zikry sedang nonton TV
dekat kan jaraknya?
dia suka begitu….tengok pembaca berita dari dekat
Farah Fauzana , Melodi tu dekat dekat
Anuar Zain, Sheila Rusly, Harun Salim Bachik semuanya dia tgk dari dekat
(Boleh imejin ziki dengan spek?)

kalau bawa ziki jalan jalan window shopping
dia tak suka duduk dalam strollernya
tapi oleh kerana beratnya sudah 8.5 kg
maka kami terpaksa biarkannya menangis & masam di dalam stroller
habis menangis, dia main kaki masuk mulut =)

di bawah ni ziki dan mak ngah
mak ngah malu malu amek gambar dengan ziki? haish..

ok kisah di playpen ziki
nampak power rangers besar itu?
atuk abah nya belikan….besarkan?
besar dari iki…
atuknya belikan sebab iki dah bocorkan power rangers lamanya
ayah ziki tampal pakai cellotape pun tak buleh
tetap bucur…
kalau ziki bucurkan juga power rangers yg besar ni
mau tok abahnya bawa power rangers real dari jepun datang cheras!

makin ziki besar, dia dah makin iras ayahnya
perangai pun dah macam macam
atuk ayah yang pegangnya kata “pegang ziki cam pegang belut”
tak reti duduk diam
cuit sana, tarik sini, lompat setempat, berbunyi “AAAAAAAA”

untuk aunti ayang, bucik amy dan aunti qas yang wendukan ziki
jemputlah kerumah main power rangers dengan iki =)

happy birthday to u-ul
semoga u-ul jadi anak yang baik dan solehah
dengar cakap abu ye…abu sangat sayangkan u-ul tawww…
muahss dari aunti sue =)

kalian, kalau nak tahu apa yg saya sibuk2 kan
inilah dia…

 Karnival Wanita Anggun (KAWAN) adalah satu karnival khas bagi golongan wanita.

Di mana karnival ini menghimpunkan semua pengusaha-pengusaha dalam perniagaan produk-produk kecantikan, produk-produk kesihatan, pereka fesyen dan pengeluar barangan aksesori wanita.
Ia merupakan kerjasama sepenuhnya oleh Kerajaan Negeri,Persatuan Pengguna Islam Malaysia dan Persatuan Penggiat Industri Nasyid.

ZASSS ku di sana ya! Booth 1-5 =)

Lama saya tak jenguk2 blog saya neh
busy dengan project mini ngabihkan boreh saya yang seterusnya
kawan kawan, kakak kakak, doakan saya berjaya ya!
saya bukan mahukan apa apa yang besar, grand bagai
saya cuma mahu lakukan sesuatu yang I’m best at
ya ya, manalah saya tau saya bagus disitu selagi saya belum mencuba kan
no harm trying kata org kampung saya nyehehe =)

saya reply komen ya!

ena dari forum cari
anna…
anak kita seiring ek! sama² da pandai berdiri…
dan emak²nya pon seiring…
sama² tak sabar nak tambah baby ekekekekeke…..
hi ena,
ena, nick mu apa ni forum cari?
kak ummi ina kah?
anak kita seiring sejalan…apa kata kita gandingkan? uhuks
cuma, ziki tu mukanya selalu merah merah ruam laa
eh.anakmu wanita kah ena?
ah..kipuchinya ku…hihi…
kepada yg hairan dengan nama anna tu, di forum cari nickku Arianna_Muchtar
cemane leh dpt nick tu?
nanti ye…di entri lain ku stori mori =)
tambah baby? sabar ena…sabar…
(urut2 dada sendiri..hihi..)

nurul dhia
Chumel nye dia dlm walker. x saba gak nk soh hafeez dok dlm walker. huhuhu

kak elly
uisshh,lamanya sepi. gi honeymoon kt bulan ke senyap aje? hehhe..
sue, nx week frm 1-7ogos BREASTFEEDING WEEK!
Eppy membreast feeding Iki ek, semoga smp ke 2 tahun okie? (wish awal2 kot2 ternyanyuk plak )
honeymoon?
belum gi lagi kak..tunggu ziki besar sikit, leh dok bilik sendiri
(haihhh..kinky je bunyinya )
Happy breastfeeding juga utk kak elly & aydan!
1 year 5 months to go! sukses…sukses.. =)

ted
ted pun jeling2 gak kat perut, sorok lemak.dahlah skang muat pakai suar ngandung je.hehehe.sis skang mmg selalu bizi je.ntah ape dibuatnya, blog pun berkulat da..
hehe.besday bila sis?hehehe
ayahnya memberi susu gaya versatil tau.hehe
hi ted, ted anak dara tau
beza alignment nya ngan mak dara (haisyh…)
ted busy lagi bercuti pusing melesia kah?
haih…nikmati masa single mu sepuasnya tau..

ziki? berinya makan bagaikan berperang
sebab dia tak suka healthy food
ku dah stop beri makanan segera gerber, heinz, nestum tu
kerana ianya penuh dengan bahan yang bukan bukan
lalu ku rebus dan blend kan makanan sehat utk ziki kesayangan hamba

ayahnya selalu tanyaku
“sue dah try?”
“tak try, tp sue tau ianya sihat utk ziki, walaupun kurang sedap”
haih..bunyi cam ibu mithali yang menang award masa maulidurrasul kan?

1 oz bubur nasi campur carrot
dan 1 oz pear, serta separuh bekas dadih air masak utk ziki
mujur tak dikuis kuis dengan kakinya
high chair? ku tak belikannya high chair
perlu pegang kedua tangannya kuat2
supaya dia tak garu2 mulutnya
ehem…dia masih boleh menyembur…dimuka mommy

boring duduk rumah, kami keluar ke JJ Cheras Selatan
nak cari2 kamera utk saya
suami kasiankan saya, terkedek2 marahkan ziki suruh stand still
masa nak ambil gambar (boleh imajin? marah sbb benda2 kecil)

ziki tak stand still masa happy
cuma termenung semasa ……masam
menangis2 tak mahu duduk dalam stroller
anak, kalau mommy leh duduk dalam stroller, mommy duduk tau
minta ayah tolakkan…takde lenguh2 kaki
tp takde stroller yang mampu menahan berat ringan mommy neh

lagi saya panggil namanya utk ambil gambar
lagi masam mukanya…

dia bukan mahukan stroller yang buleh ditolak2
mahupun mainan orange merah kuning hijau
dia cuma mahukan perhatian dan org main dengan dia
bila di agah, barulah mulutnya terlopong senyum sikit

masa kami makan, dia diam je bersandar
ayahnya kata “kalau diam macamni kan ayah sayang”
saya betulkan, kasih sayang kan unconditional love
tiada prasyarat =)
ayah sambung “ya ya, tp begini lebih sayang”
refer pada ziki yang melentok

lepas makan, kami sambung pusing pusing JJ
masam muka ziki
ups, maknanya dia sedang fokus pada sesuatu
adalah tu kerjanya….

ziki sibuk belek brochure kamera yang saya sebut sebut tu
entahkan faham entahkan tidak…

kalian, kalian
jumpa saya di tempat2 yang saya bakal kunjungi
menara TM pucuk rebung, UPM dan Stadium Melawati Shah Alam…
yang renek renek, tudung senget2 dukung anak
saya lah iteww =)

hujung minggu lepas mommy merangka rangka nak ke sana kumari
“ayah ayah, mula2 kita gi rumah miss h kat salak tinggi”
“kemudian ke rumah miss za di nilai 3″
“boleh juga singgah2 di nilai 3 tengok baju utk raya kan?”
“dan kalau tak silap, rumah miss adah di nilai juga, dia baru bersalin 8 july haritu..boleh singgah”
(korang perasan tak,mommy sorang bercakap?)
ayah angguk, tanda okkay!
malam harinya, zikry menangis selang 5 minit
merengek dan meragam
ambil suhu, 38.9′c
beri dia minum ubat demam yang selalu dpt tiap kali lepas injection
sampai jam 5 pagi dia merengek2, kami letakkan tuala basah di kepalanya
menangis dengan kuat
kasihan…
bila beri makan ubat, zikry muntahkan semua susu dalam perutnya
sampai terkeluar ikut hidung
kesian anak mommy
sampai merah2 mukanya
cadangnya nak terus ke klinik
tp, biarlah..monitor dulu, esok pagi baru ke klinik
zikry sempat tidur setengah jam pada pukul 7 pagi sampai 7.30 pagi
itupun lepas dengar bunyi dog
bunyi anjing jiran depan menyalak jiran sebelah rumah saya keluar jogging

kasian dia, bangun pagi saya mandikan dia
siap2 mahu ke klinik
sempat dia main gelak2 dengan ayah
(tapi lebih byk masam mukanya)

haritu mommy belikan bekas baru utk barang2 zikry
buleh letak cotton bud, lotion, minyak telon
lion jagakan barang2 zikry daripada tertumpah2 ye?

pulang dari klinik, zikry berehat di rumah
malamnya, kami ke Tesco
zikry? dia demam, tp kami bawa juga
dia tak merengek semasa di Tesco

cuma masam tengok orang yang lalu lalang
lebih suka melepek dan meleser dgn ayah dan mommy
sampai rumah, baru dia mengamuk
oleh kerana zikry demam, maka ayah kata dia boleh buat apa yang dia suka
yang saya tak kan benarkan semasa dia sihat
iaitu minum ebm(expressed breastmilk) melalui botol
dan tidur kaki tergantung
asalkan dia dpt tidur dan berehat sahaja sudah cukup utk saya
bolehla saya tumpang sekaki

dah 2 malam zikry being cranky and unhappy
malam semalam, panasnya dah berkurang ke 37.8′c
dah mula gelak gelak dengan atuk
saya masakkan bubur utk iki
lepas baca majalah CAP (consumer association penang)
tentang makanan instant utk baby
macam macam dibubuh dalam tu, gam envelope, chalk, preservative
saya cari2 resipi bubur di dalam susuibu.com

bubur ini tidaklah cantek
tapi nampak keikhlasan mommy semasa membuatnya
haish ayat, tak tahan..

masa mula mula bubur ni masuk mulut zikry
he tooks a longgggg pause
macam seluruh dunia terberhenti
saya dan suami sudah blur
suami “arghhh…apa ni?????”
hah..sukahati je buat ayat zikry sendiri!

kemudian kemudian, baru laju suapannya
bubur ni tawar, tanpa garam,tanpa telur
yang ada, cuma serbuk ikan bilis
ayam, potato, garlic, minyak masak dan nasi yang direbus
kemudian di blender halus

mommy bekalkan bubur yang sama utk zikry pagi tadi =)
nanti makan kat rumah mak ye (pengasuh zikry)

pagi tadi, suhu zikry dah 37.6′c
dah sihat pun hero mommy
cuma, dia masih masam, dan longlai…tidak aktif mcm mommynye

sementara kami suami isteri bersiap, zikry main toysnya
ayah zikry cuba ajarkan zikry, button mana yang perlu di tekan
tapi dia tak mahu
zikry tak suka tangannya ditarik tarik
dia mahu buat sendiri
dan dia sebenarnya boleh …

buat sendiri jika dia mahu =)

 For each of the following questions, pick the best answer-in other words, the statement that describes your child most of the time.

1. My baby

A. rarely cries

B. cries only when he’s hungry, tired, or overstimulated

C. cries for no apparent reason

D. cries very loudly, and if I don’t attend to it, he quickly gets into a

rage cry

E. cries a lot of the time

2. When it’s time for him to go to sleep, my baby

A. lies peacefully in his crib and drifts off to sleep

B. generally falls asleep easily within twenty minutes

C. fusses a bit and seems to be drifting off, but then he keeps waking up

D. is very restless and often needs to be swaddled or held

E. cries a lot and seems to resent being put down

3. When she wakes up in the morning, my baby

A. rarely cries-he plays in his crib until I come in

B. coos and looks around

C. needs immediate attention or he starts crying

D. screams

E. whimpers

4. My baby smiles

A. at everything and everybody

B. when prompted

C. when prompted but sometimes starts to cry within minutes of smiling

D. a lot and is also very vocal, tending to make very loud baby noises

E. only under the right circumstances

5. When I take my baby on any kind of outing, he

A. is extremely portable

B. is okay as long as where I take him isn’t too busy or unfamiliar

C. fusses a great deal

D. is very demanding of my attention

E. doesn’t like to be handled a lot

6. When confronted by a friendly stranger cooing at him, my baby

A. immediately smiles

B. takes a moment and then usually smiles fairly quickly

C. is likely to cry at first, unless the stranger can win him over

D. gets very excited

E. hardly ever smiles

7. When there’s a loud noise, like a dog barking or a slamming door, my baby;

A. is never rattled

B. notices it but isn’t bothered

C. flinches visibly and often starts to cry

D. gets loud himself

E. starts to cry

8. When I first gave my baby a bath

A. she took to the water like a duck

B. she was a little surprised at the sensation, but liked it almost

immediately

C. she was very sensitive-she shook a little and seemed afraid

D. she was wild-flailing about and splashing

E. she hated it and cried

9. My baby’s body language is typically

A. relaxed and alert almost always

B. relaxed most of the time

C. tense and very reactive to external stimuli

D. Jerky-his arms and legs are often flailing all over the place

E. rigid-arms and legs are often fairly stiff

10. My baby makes loud, aggressive noises

A. once in a while

B. only when she’s playing and is highly stimulated

C. hardly ever

D. often

E. when she’s angry

11. When I change my baby’s nappy, bathe him, or dress him

A. he always takes it in stride

B. he is okay if I do it slowly and let him know what I’m doing

C. is often cranky, as if he can’t stand being naked

D. wriggles a lot and tries to pull everything off the changing table

E. he hates it-dressing is always a battle

12. If I suddenly bring my baby into bright light, like sunlight or fluorescent light, he

A. takes it in stride

B. can sometimes act startled

C. blinks excessively or tries to turn her head away from the light

D. becomes over stimulated

E. acts annoyed

13a. If you bottle-feed: When I feed my baby, he

A. always sucks properly, pays attention, and usually eats within twenty minutes

B. is a little erratic during growth spurts but generally a good eater

C. is very squirmy and takes a long time to finish the bottle

D. grabs at the bottle aggressively and tends to ‘overeat

E. is often cranky and feedings take a long time

13b. If you breastfeed: When I feed my baby, he

A. latches on immediately-it was a snap right from day one

B. took a day or two to latch on properly, but now we do fine

C. always wants to suckle but goes on and off the breast, as if he’s forgotten how to nurse

D. eats well as long as I hold him the way he wants me to (kadang2 nak baring berpeluk, kdg2 masa dia meniarap.boleh imejin?)

E. gets very annoyed and restless, as if I don’t have enough milk for him

14. The comment that best describes the communication between my baby and me is

A. he always lets me know exactly what she needs

B. most of the time her cues are easy to read

C. he confuses me; sometimes she even cries at me

D. he asserts her likes and dislikes very clearly and often loudly

E. he usually gets my attention with loud, angry crying

15. When we go to a family gathering and lots of people want to hold him, my baby

A. is very adaptable

B. is somewhat selective about whom he’ll go to

C. cries easily if too many people hold him

D. might cry or even try to lurch out of someone’s arms if he doesn’t feel

comfortable

E. refuses anyone’s arms except Mummy’s or Daddy’s

16. When we come home from any kind of outing, my baby

A. settles in easily and immediately

B. takes a few minutes to get acclimatised

C. tends to be very fussy

D. is often overstimulated and hard to calm down

E. acts angry and miserable

17. My baby

A. can amuse herself for long periods by staring at anything, even the slats in the crib

B. can play on his own for around fifteen minutes

C. finds it hard to be amused in unfamiliar surroundings

D. needs a lot of stimulation to be amused

E. is not easily amused by anything

18. The most noticeable thing about my baby is how

A. incredibly well-behaved and easy he is

B. much he is developing precisely on schedule-just like the books said he would

C. sensitive he is to everything

D. aggressive he is

E. grouchy he can be

19. My baby seems to

A. feel utterly safe in his own bed (crib)

B. prefer his bed most of the time

C. feel insecure in his bed

D. act feisty, like his bed is a prison

E. resent being put down into his bed

20. A comment that best describes my baby is that

A. you hardly know there’s a baby in the house-he’s good as gold

B. he’s easy to handle, easy to predict

C. he’s a very delicate little thing

D. I fear when he begins crawling, he’s going to get into everything

E. he’s an “old soul”-he acts like he’s been here before

To score the self-test above, write A, B, C, D, and E on a piece of paper and next to each one, count how many times you’ve used each letter, which denotes a correspond­ing type.

~~ Your Baby’s Type ~~

When you tally up your letters, chances are that you’ll have picked predominantly one or two. As you read the descriptions below, re­member that we’re talking about a way of being in the world here, not an occasional mood or a type of behaviour associated with a difficulty, such as colic, or a particular developmental milestone, like teething. You’ll probably recognise your baby in the following thumbnail sketches, or perhaps she’s a bit like this, a bit like that. Read all five descriptions. I’ve exemplified each profile with a baby I’ve met who fits it almost exactly.

A.The Angel baby..

As you might expect, this is the kind of baby every first-time-pregnant woman imagines herself to have: good as gold. Pauline is such a baby-mellow, eternally smiling, and consistently undemanding. Her cues are easy to read. She’s not bothered by new surroundings, and she is extremely portable-in fact, you can take her anywhere. She feeds, plays, and sleeps easily, and usually doesn’t cry when she wakes up. You’ll find Pauline babbling in her crib most mornings, talking to a stuffed animal or just amus­ing herself by staring at a stripe on the wall. An Angel baby often can calm herself down, but if she gets a little overtired, perhaps be­cause her cues were misread, all you have to do is snuggle her and tell her, “I can see that you’re overtired.” Then, turn on a lullaby, make the room nice and dim and quiet, and she will put herself to sleep.

B.The Textbook baby..

This is our predictable baby, and as such, he’s fairly easy to handle. Oliver does everything on cue, so there are few surprises with him. He reaches all the milestones right on schedule-sleeps through the night by three months, rolls over by five, sits up by six. He’ll have growth spurts like clockwork­periods during which his appetite will suddenly increase because he’s putting on extra body weight or making a developmental leap. Even as young as a week, he can play on his own for short periods­fifteen minutes or so-and he’ll coo a lot and look around. And he smiles when someone smiles at him. Though Oliver has normal cranky periods, just like the books describe, he’s easy to calm. It’s not hard to get him to sleep, either.

C.The Touchy baby..

For an ultrasensitive baby like Michael, the world is an endless array of sensory challenges. He flinches at the sound of a motorcycle revving outside his window, the TV blaring, a dog barking in the house next door. He blinks or turns his head away from bright light. He sometimes cries for no apparent reason, even at his mother.At those moments, he’s shouting (in his baby lan­guage), “I’ve had enough-I need some peace and quiet.” He often gets fussy after a number of people have held him, or after outings. He’ll play on his own for a few minutes, but he needs the reassur­ance that someone he knows well-Mum, Dad, a nanny-is close by. Because this type of baby likes to suck a lot, Mum may misread his cues and think he’s hungry when he’d do just as well on a dummy. He also nurses erratically, sometimes acting as though he’s forgotten how. At nap time and at night, Michael often has dif­ficulty falling asleep. Touchy babies like him easily get off schedule, because their systems are so fragile. An extra-long nap, a skipped meal, an unexpected visitor, a trip, a change in formula-any of these things can throw Michael for a loop. To calm the Touchy baby, you have to re-create the womb. Swaddle him tightly, snuggle him into your shoulder, whisper a rhythmic sh . . . sh . . . sh sound (like the splashing of fluid in the womb) close to his ear, and pat his back gently, mimicking a heartbeat. (This, by the way, will calm most babies, but it works especially well with a Touchy baby.) When you have a Touchy baby, the quicker you learn his cues and his cries, the simpler life is. These babies love structure and predictability­.No hidden surprises, thank you.

D.The Spirited baby…

This is a baby who seems to emerge from the womb knowing what she likes and doesn’t like, and she won’t hesi­tate to let you know it. Babies like Karen are very vocal and even seem aggressive at times. She often screams for Mum or Dad when she gets up in the morning. She hates lying in her own pee or poo, and she says “Change me” by boisterously vocalising her discom­fort. Indeed, she babbles a lot and loudly. Her body language tends to be a bit jerky. Karen often needs swaddling to get to sleep, be­cause her flailing arms and legs keep her up and overstimulated. If she starts crying and the cycle is not interrupted, it’s like a point of no return, and her crying leads to more crying until she’s reached a fever pitch of rage. A spirited baby is likely to grab for her bottle at an early age. She’ll also notice other babies before they notice her, and as soon as she’s old enough to develop a good, firm grasp, she’ll grab their toys as well.

E.The Grumpy baby.

I have a theory that babies like Gavin have been here before-they’re old souls, as we call them-and they’re not all that happy to be back. I may be wrong, of course, but whatever the reason, I assure you this type of baby is downright mardy, as we say in Yorkshire-he’s mad at the world and lets you know it. (My coauthor informs me that the Yiddish equivalent is farbissiner.) Gavin whimpers every morning, doesn’t smile much during the day, and fusses his way to sleep every night. His mum has a lot of trouble keeping baby-sitters, because they tend to take this little guy’s bad humour personally. He hated baths at first, and every time anyone tried to change or dress him, he was fidgety and irri­table. His mother had tried to breastfeed him, but she had a slow letdown (the pace of milk working its way down and through the nipple), and Gavin was impatient. Even though she switched him to formula, feeding is still difficult because of his cranky disposi­tion. To calm a Grumpy baby, it usually takes a patient mum or dad, because these babies get very angry and their cries are particu­larly loud and long. The sh . . . sh . . . sh has to be louder than the cry. They hate to be swaddled, and they certainly let you know it. If a Grumpy baby has reached a major meltdown, instead of shush­ing say, “It’s okay, it’s okay, it’s okay,” in a rhythm while gently swaying front to back.